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How To Use A Vibrator?


I am going to be your guide as I will discuss how to use a vibrator! Vibrators can be used for a variety of unique ways during masturbation, or to spice things up in the bedroom with your lover. Some are tiny and discreet for you to store in your bag, and some are large and powerful to give you exploding orgasms. It’s all about preference and what you want to get out of using a vibrator. There are so many different kinds out there with a dozen or more functions, so you need a road map to even begin navigating how to use them. That is why I’ve collected the best tips and info to give you the lowdown on how it’s done! FIRST THINGS FIRST! As I mentioned, not every vibrator is made the same. Shape wise, function-wise, design, color, material - all the above. You sometimes come across silky silicone vibes, or perhaps a smooth plastic. Everyone’s preferences are unique in how they go about choosing a toy, but I wanted to put together a guide to make it a little bit easier for you if you’re a beginner! So materials...


Materials

Vibrators typically come as silicone or TPE (thermoplastic elastomer), which is a smooth plastic material. Both of these materials are easy to clean and to store. However, over the years there have been more materials used to create vibrators. Like: Jelly - Jelly toys are a soft, rubbery material that is comfortable for beginners. This is used on a lot of suction cup dildos, but also as the outer coating on vibrators/vibrating dildos. Silicone - One of the easier materials to clean, silicone toys are soft and feel luxurious on the skin. Used to make most toys and vibrators.Plastic - Easy to clean, harder for a “stiff” sensation. Metal - typically used for butt plugs, or nipple clamps, but can also be used for vibrators and dildos. No matter what you choose, combine with a lubricant and you’ll be in heaven! The next thing to consider is what kind of stimulation you’re aiming for. For the ladies, there’s a LOT of options. From rabbit vibrators to bullets or even a vibrating dildo. It comes down to what kind of stimulation you’re looking for.


Clitoral Stimulation

Clitoral vibrators can be used for different kinds of stimulation, but are shaped to fit in or cup over the clitoris. However, you can use just about any vibrator for clitoral stimulation. The  Live Sexy Ascend 1 is a great option if you’ve never tried a clit vibe that fits right into the palm of your hand. This little clit vibe has everything you need packed in a small curve. Waterproof, you can experiment with vibrations in the tub or shower for wet and wild fun. Another way vibrators can be a fun addition to your routine, using a vibrator in water combines warmth and sensations that will melt you into orgasm. The Ascend is also quiet, making it your best-kept secret. Another crowd favorite are bullet vibrators. These little egg (sometimes peanut) shaped vibrators pack a powerful punch in a small, travel-sized component. Bullets can be inserted vaginally, run across the nipples and clit, or held against the shaft of a penis. Bullet vibrators are perfect for sex since they’re small and will stay put, even when it gets rough! Start slow, hold the vibrator against your clit. Use a slower speed and/or function to begin. Start from the top, move your way down the vaginal lips and tease over your clit, and back. If the toy has multiple functions, try going through all of them and see what feels the most pleasurable for you. You may not get it right away and that’s okay, practice makes perfect! If you find yourself struggling to get aroused, consider using a clitoral/tingling gel to get you in the mood and wet enough for stimulation.


Vaginal Stimulation

Sometimes you don't have your lover around to satisfy your desires. Using a vibrator for vaginal stimulation can give you the real feeling of penetration. With the variety of materials and shapes, you can use a toy that focuses more on your G-spot, or something that gives an overall internal massage. The  G-Pearl GSpot Stimulator is a good choice for those wanting vaginal penetration and to reach their G-spot. You can use this as a hands-free toy by centering your vagina on the bulb tip and rocking your body back and forth in unison with the vibration pattern. Now, you may be new to this and asking yourself, where is the G-spot? The female G-spot is located on the front, inner part of the vaginal wall. You can reach it by consistently placing stimulation on the area. When stimulated correctly, and for a long enough duration, can result in explosive, or even squirting orgasms. Squirting is a type of orgasm that can occur for women when they ejaculate vaginally. It is a complicated concept because it’s not something everyone can necessarily do. This doesn’t mean it’s impossible with enough trying but do not become discouraged if it’s not easy to achieve. Find a stronger speed/function on your vibrator and insert the toy vaginally. Insert the vibrator further enough in that you feel a pressure that may almost feel as if you need to pee. This is the result of fluid, female ejaculate, flowing to the G-spot, much like ejaculate building in the penis. Massage the area, try inserting and removing the toy in a fashion similar to penetration. Do this consistently and rapidly for the best results. Once again, don’t get discouraged, keep trying at it before you have a mind-blowing G-spot orgasm!


Dual Stimulation

Dual Stimulation Blended orgasms - tremendous. Even better than just a clitoral orgasm (hard to believe!) but when in unison with a vaginal orgasm, it can be incredibly erotic for a female.

A good option for dual sensations is the Fifty Shades Greedy Girl Rabbit! This toy has a penis like shaft that extends into a curve to fit into your G-spot. While you get an internal massage, the tickling rabbit ears will tease your clit to orgasm in unison! Any vibrator usually has a surface where the vibrations are centered primarily. Dual-ended toys have an end to insert vaginally, and then another end to stimulate the clit. In order to reach a blended orgasm, it is best to use the same technique of consistent stimulation. If the toy offers independent functions on each end, try playing around with different patterns of each to find what suits your needs and desires. With any type of vibrator, it is recommended that you use a personal lubricant to give you the most pleasurable experience possible!


Wand Massagers

Wand massagers are not only a fantastic addition to sex and masturbation but have deep, massaging functions that you can use on aching muscles. For the ladies, if you’re using it for sexier purposes and running solo, you can hold the wand against your clit and vaginal area. For all over stimulation, run one of these personal massagers over your nipples to heighten arousal. One magic wand that holds the power and everything you need for a great time is the Bodywand Original Massager. The head of this massager is flexible to reach even the hard-to areas and fit in the curve of your body for maximum pleasure. The multi-speed dial allows you to control the action and caress yourself in a variety of ways to become aroused or reach orgasm. For the guys, try holding the bulb end of the massager against the head of the penis. You can run it up and down the shaft for more erotic sensations. There’s truly nothing negative that can from using a vibrator. A lot of people believe the myth that it will desensitize you to penetration or play with a partner (to the feeling of your partner). This is so rare, you’re honestly more likely to get bitten by a shark. Vibrators are beneficial for learning more about your body and what feels good. They can offer added stimulation during sex to help you both reach orgasm more quickly. Try incorporating a massager or bullet in between the two of you during penetration, scissoring, anal sex or even oral sex. The added vibration, especially for women, can make it easier to cum when it can be hard to during penetration. Place the toy between the two of you so that it’s stimulating both of you as you play. Continue with sex as usual and let the vibrator be the perfect third for your night of fun.


Where to buy vibrators?

Where do you purchase the perfect vibrator, you may ask. At Chiara’s, there is a vast selection of vibrators that aim to target your G-spot, clitoris, prostate, as well as various rabbit vibrators, finger vibes, and bullets! Now that you have more information on vibrators and how to use them, the only logical step is to… go get one and try it obviously! If you have any tips or techniques that you love when masturbating, leave a comment below!

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